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What Are Her Motives? |
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Both women and men have motives in everything they do. Only
difference is that a women’s motives are much harder to figure
out, although not impossible. They do leave enough clues for you
to figure out. Their body language, the questions they ask, and
their actions all form clues to what they are after.
It may be for money. You’ll quickly notice this if she expects
you to pay for everything and never offers to split any bills
and she doesn’t take the opportunity to also pay for you at
times. Questions she asks such as what you do, the house you
live in, and the car you drive, these are definite signs that
she is in it for the money.
Other women may be in it for the sex, they just want to get
laid. And you will be able to pick this up through their
actions. Sexually adventurous women are much more aggressive in
their actions such as approaching you very closely on the dance
floor, wrapping their arms around you etc. Although there are
exceptional shy ones that are also sexually active and are
really just waiting for the right man to sweep them away and
begin their sexual encounter and fantasy.
Women love to talk, so you should allow them to. They are
revealing themselves to you. However, if you encounter a shy
women who is more timid, ask her questions. Men usually make the
mistake of trying to cover up complete silence by filling it up
with self centered talk, intentionally or unintentionally. Women
are turned off by self centeredness. Don’t make this mistake.
There must be a balance. Try to ask a question for every
question she asks, that is best way.
Women also act shy as they look downward, hoping the man catches
them doing so. What they are doing is really inviting us into
their world. Even a slight smile is perhaps an invitation to
move forward.
It is not only men who get nervous in front of the opposite sex.
Women are probably as or more nervous than men are. So if the
woman is talking to you, then you’ve got a chance. It’s common
that if the woman is either taken or doesn’t want to know you
more, she can be quite blunt or you’ll notice that she will find
a way to get out talking to your further.
If it’s none of these, then, go full steam ahead, she’ll want
you to!
In the mean time, Good Luck!
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About The Author
Terry Leslie is a successful and world renowned authority figure
on creating and maintaining successful relationships. A much
sought after global speaker in the areas of intimate
relationships, self-improvement and human peak potential
training.
For more Secrets to Dating and Relationship success, check out
http://www.secrets2datingsuccess.com
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