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What Do Women Really Want
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Men have been trying to figure out what women want for ages, and
to be honest that's an question that bears asking. Without
knowing what a woman wants, how can you expect her to respond to
you? You've heard the old cliches, that diamonds are a girl's
best friend, that every girl wants roses on Valentine's Day, or
that what she really wants is romantic getaway, but
realistically, what do women want? Answering this question can
take a lifetime, and even if it's an extremely enjoyable study
on a vastly lovely topic, it will be frustrating, as well! Take
a look a few pointers for figuring out what women want.
To start off with, women want someone who listens. This seems
simple enough, until you add in the fact that you need to
comprehend, digest and use accordingly as well. Say a girl
mentions that she enjoys sushi. Just hearing this statement is
not the end of it. To be counted an active listener, surprise
her with a dinner at a Japanese restaurant. Women appreciate
small details as well as large ones, so try to integrate this
into your life. If she mentions being nervous about a
presentation at work, ask her about it in the evening. This will
win you major points in the listener category.
Remember to be yourself. You might think that a woman prefers
someone who is all about her, but realistically, that gets old.
Having your own interests and your hobbies makes you much more
interesting. Keep in mind that women like being thought of as
worthwhile, but too much is too much. If you spend all your time
fawning on her, she'll soon start believing that you're a loser
who has nothing else going on in his life, and the fact is, she
might not be far wrong! When you have a busy life and you make
time out of it to spend with your girlfriend or lover, she'll be
flattered. Every woman likes to feel that her man is exciting
and fascinating, so make sure that you display this. Trust us,
women aren't looking for doormats that will serve them hand and
foot all day, every day!
One strategy that you might want to employ is breaking it down a
little bit. So know that the person you're trying to impress is
a woman. Well, that breaks it down to a category that
encompasses half the human race. Get more specific than that.
Maybe she's a librarian; that usually means that she enjoys
books. Does she work at a gym? That must mean that fitness is
important to her. When you start gathering facts like this,
you're getting closer to finding out what is important to the
woman that you are interested in.
As you can see, figuring out what women want can be frustrating.
When you're out there trying to attract the eye of the woman of
your dreams, remember that you have a lot to offer and that
sometimes, what a woman wants most is for you to head over and
say hello. In the mean time, Good Luck!
OR if you would like to receive a FREE copy of a limited number
of the eGuide “Instant Magnetic Attraction” and discover “What
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About The Author
Terry Leslie is a successful and world renowned authority figure
on creating and maintaining successful relationships. A much
sought after global speaker in the areas of intimate
relationships, self-improvement and human peak potential
training.
For more Secrets to Dating and Relationship success, check out
http://www.secrets2datingsuccess.com
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